Sunday, August 02, 2009
Resentment: From the Children's View
In our first issue we focused on Child Support/Break-Ups, and the problems it not only causes, but the turmoil both parents endure. Fortunately, we didn't go into it deeply enough so I wrote a piece which I had published online, that took things a bit further and focused mainly on the children.
Any break-up causes friction and when kids are involved it affects them just as bad. As parents we have to keep focus and understand the children's role in this, and how much the break-up may affect them if we focus only on the break-up and not their feelings.
Hopefully, the following article can bring the focus on the kids, and help the couples splitting up better handle the situation. The most important thing to remember, and always keep in mind are the children. It may be difficult at times to hold your tongue when in the process of breaking up, but it is mandatory to always see your bickering doesn't change a thing and the children are the ones who truly suffer if they happen to be a witness to these outbursts.
Bottom line is: Place Children First.
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