Many find being assertive a great thing, but when one is used to being a lady and moral values weigh you down it sometimes can be overwhelming to say the least. You want to go with the times and a secret side to you longs to break free, but yet you tend to hesitate. You may find yourself asking "Should I or Could I? "May I or Can I? The issue may not be so much being assertive.
You know what or should I just say who you want. Once one is attracted to someone its inevitable, but the fear of branching out these days and acting on it can be scary and can sometimes lead one to trouble.
Flirting is one thing I find exciting, exhilarating and most of all fun. I enjoy being told I look good, I relish being singled out in a crowd and most of all I adore being the one not so easy to get. Call me a tease if you will, for I truly don't care. The purpose of my giving you my side of things is in one way so I can vent and in another to see how many people feel the same and just keep those hidden desires bottled in for fear of being rejected.
Throughout my life I have played the assertive role three times and all three times it has bit me in the butt in a bad way. My self-esteem diminished a bit, and I felt like a fool afterwards for putting myself out there like that, but I learned my lesson well. Therefore, my being assertive with someone I just simply find attractive will forever be a no no, I will or shall not repeat again.
~Author Unknown
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